Holidays

The summer vacation is here. It basically is a 10 – day – enjoy – 40 days – boredom kind of a vacation. It is truly said, “All work and no play make Jack a dull dog.” However I would like to add, “All play and no work make him even dumber.”

I mean, come on, either the school authority plan to give us so much work that we barely have time to rest or they are, like, absolutely Do – whatever – you – want – to kinds of people. I am usually not very active, and am generally found resting (lolling around and doing nothing). However, this vacation, I seemed to have changed. Of what was before a formality, I keep asking my mom to give me some work, be it to mop the floor or to wash the clothes or to go to the market to fetch something, I am mostly willing to do it (Only if it is not too hot). My mind seems to be empty and all that ever retained seems to be draining away. When not put to use, what do you expect?

“An empty mind is a devil’s workshop”. I have finally understood its meaning. All day long when I am not doing anything and just roaming about the house doing nothing, my mind seems to be formulating plans on different schemes to mess things up. For a person like me, who is usually very non violent, this looks unusual. I can practically hear my mind buzzing around to create ideas to trouble my sister, who is a little short tempered or to cut, tear, mess and unarrange the things around. I also seem to giving away my hobbies like to read books is exchanged by working on the cellphone, playing by watching the telly and talking to family by listenng to songs in a dark, empty closed-door room. Looks as if I am addicted to the telly and the phone, considering the amount of time spent on them as compared to earlier.

Even my practice of bathing early and waking up early too, has been replaced by waking up late and bathing even later, mostly after noon. I feel exhausted just by lying on the bed and doing nothing. I feel all the energy energy stored inside me slowly draining away. All i do is now lay on the bed and listen to songs on the earphone.

I have started to feel sort of restless, wanting to do some work and just hope that these holidays end as soon as possible.

My Regret

I can’t sleep at night
Books are everywhere in sight.
Exams are near
Taking away everything dear.

T.V. , Computers, PlayStation
We can’t live: They are our addiction.
Friends are a world apart
A treat is, for us, visiting the mart.

Papers flying everywhere
Books are scattered here and there.
Pens are making screeching sounds
The syllabus left is a big mound. 

The exams are a day after
Parents’ shouts drowning our laughter!
If only I had studied before,
I would have been so sore. 

 

Vacations are approaching
I have planned my day
I would stay in home, less
And be down to play.

My friends would be waiting
To meet me, day in and day out
I will enjoy much with them
And with them, have laughter bouts.

I would study a lot more.
As to complete my homework
It would be so much fun,
When I would be with my cousins.

So finally, vacations are fun,
For getting tanned in the sun,
I will paint, shout and run
In this whole month.

A Trip Worth A Million Words- My Trip To Rishikesh

A weekend is a good way to relieve all the stress and also enjoy the day after a hectic working week; therefore an early weekend even better.That is what we did.

That is what we did.

Wednesday, that is, April 4, 2012, my school was destined to open which it did. When returned home, I found the house in kooda, all the things scattered everywhere, which is really unusual as my mother is a cleanliness freak, and I am usually in a habit of seeing a clean home after returning from school. When I asked my folks on what was happening, they told me, ” We are going to Rishikesh, for some refreshment.”

Which, I realized some time later, would mean me taking a holiday on the second day of a new session of my school; Thursday and Friday being a holiday for some festival.

So next day, we were all ready, fully packed for our trip. Alas, as soon as we sat into the car, we gotta know that it was punctured. Sad it was, but my father though that it would be more prudent if we called my cousins to pick us up rather than fix it as we were already late. So 20 minutes later, we all were tightly huddled up as the car was small and the luggage was at the peak. We then went to our grandparent’s house, where, we were all to begin our journey.

We had taken two cars with us. All the kids, except my eldest cousin, in a single car, along with my parents, creating all the noise we could, perhaps taking and absorbing all the fun we could on the trip. It began with singing songs, then with dancing – making the car jump with every extra bump we took, annoying my parents a lot. After all, reunion is a big thing, which they understood, explaining their attitude of not saying things. After some time, we got tired of dancing as well as riding the car, making our backs sore, so a decision was taken that we wait somewhere, refreshing our minds as well as stomachs, since we had been empty-stomached since 8 am.
We had quite refreshment by taking a burger snack (Not having much as in case nature calls.). Then we had some peace, as with filled tummy(s), we thought we needed some sleep as a result of waking up really early. I read a book, my sister pretended to read one and my cousin listened to songs on her cellphone. We, however, continued to have small snacks, such as chips and colas and some biscuits.

We took some 4 hours to reach Roorkee, the trip exhausting us. But we were even more surprised to find out that at least one-and-half-an-hour more were required. We took a bairaaj raasta , which is a real honey, the mystifying views erasing our tiredness and  exploring new world of nothingness. The way was awesome, something that can’t be described in words. Only if our mind could replay and enable us to see the view we saw many times age. Or like Dumbledore from Harry Potter, we could also have a ‘pensieve’, extracting our memories from the mind and watching them swirl in the dry waters of it. My only suggestion would be that a person who hasn’t seen that path is definately on the wrong path.

So after some time, say an hour or so, we reached Rishikesh, our ‘Final Destination’. It was heaven! Relax and refresh your minds for a new beginning.

We reached there in the afternoon and after the allotment of rooms, we gathered in my room to decide what to do the next three days. There were a whole lot of monkeys, who even if tamed, were animals after all. We took a lot of time travelling from the parking to the rooms as there was a lot of luggage and polythene which the monkeys mite mistake for food.

Every day, we would wake up early in the morning, however later that my parents, who woke at 4 am and then after a quick tea, went for a walk of 4 km, farther than the Lakshman Jhoola or the Lakshman Pul. Then, routinely, we would go for a bath at the Ganges and then have the breakfast.

So let me tell you, that this is a religious place with a whole lot of ashrams here, all serving the same kind of saada, saarthak food. No offence meant, but this  usually means that the food is practically tasteless. Or the spices are in such small quantities, exactly not matching the needs of the so-called “City People”. To fill our large-large tummies, we used to go on this restaurant, called the ‘Topiwala Restaurant’. The food was fine.

Then we used to go to places to explore, also memorize the different places in our ashram. Then in late afternoon, tired from early waking and then hiking, we used to lie down and have a short power nap. In the evening, after refreshing our minds, we would all gather to watch the Ganges aarti. Then we would split up into people who wanted to eat in different places-such as the ashram, the restaurant or any other different place that had been explored.

The nights there were cool, without the need to switch on a cooler but to have a quilt over us so to protect us against the unwanted cold. So after dinner, we would all go for a walk, in between the bushes of the ashrams on the paths formed there, to spend the last hours of a good day.

Another day went the same way. The same routine followed and then, I think, I should make it brief and jump on the third day.

The third day we were destined to raft. Earlier this day, we had gone to a place where there were loads of sand like a beach. We had a quiet swim there (We were later told that this pace is known as “Mini Goa”.). Then at 10:30 am, we all gathered at a place with our tummies lightly filled, and were told that we would have to walk a bit to a road uptown from where we will find our car with our rafting coach and the instruments required. Many jokes were made on having a combined package of rafting + hiking which gathered many laughs.  After half an hour of another ride in a car, we reached Shivpuri, from where we were to start our fun-filled experience of rafting 18 km on our own. Getting ready was fun, hearing the many but few jokes of people on our appearance.

Then we got our instructions for how to handle our raft in rapids (That is what the ups and downs during rafting are called.) and how to hold the paddle (look- chapu) etc.

We began our journey. There were 9 rapids that we had to face, facing our way and path courageously. The first was a grade 0 rapid, a baby rapid, named “Welcome Rapid”. Since it was a small one, everyone was eager to have more of them. We reached the second rapid in 7-8 minutes. It was named “Roller Coaster”. And believe me, it was a kind of a big roller coaster, only, set on water. This was a 3 grade rapid and also a big one. Our coach had already ordered not to stop paddling on any account as than you may loosen your grip on the paddle a find yourself in water the next second, that to in a big rapid. This one is more memorable for me as a funny incident occurred as we were passing it. My bua was seated on  the raft, amongst the eldest on the boat, and also amongst those who did not know how to swim. As we approached this rapid, she did s grave mistake. She stopped paddling as to see how high the ways were forming. As she did that, the rapid approached, turning the boat at an angle of 80 degree and the water wet us all. She fell into water at that moment. I saw that and was too stunned to say anything, when my cousin, who was in front of bua, and was her daughter, exclaimed, “Arre! Where did mummy go?” Everybody then looked back, and the next moment saw her hanging down there in the raft with clutching the rope that surrounds it, terror blank on her face and more than that, wishing that someone would pick her up. She was terrified. Our coach bhaiya came and lifted her up from the life jacket she was wearing, then throwing her on the base of the raft and asking her if she was O.K.

Later when the rapid ended, she started making fun out of it. Saying, “I was actually petrified at first: 1) There was a rapid where I fell. 2) I did not know how to swim. So the only thing I had in mind was to hold the rope and stay afloat. 3) I was afraid of hitting a rock. 4) I went under the raft as soon as I fell.” Then we had another grade 3 rapid, I don’t remember its name, maybe Golf course, and fortunately, no one fell. Then we had 7 more rapid some remembered ones as- Hilton, Double Trouble, Clubhouse, Terminator etc.

After one hour and half we reached mini Goa beach, during which time we had already jumped into the river like , from the raft. The water was freezing hell! Some few meters further, there was a lot of quiet. Then screaming started. The thing was that a person had drowned and that spot while swimming about 3-4 minutes ago. And people kept repeating that like 2-3 feet away from the spot where we were still, a hand had been seen. So our raft bhaiya, named Ali and a bhaiya from the other raft ordered us to take us to that point and put our paddle deep into the water. We were shocked, cold sweat pouring down our faces. We were really scared. The younger siblings started to weep, but we carried on our search, for like 5 minutes. This was as scary as hell, because even if we found the body, it would have been the first time anybody of us found a really dead body. the thought was damn scary. Our bhaiya said that the body will now be recovered 4 days later as till then it would have been light as to make it possibly float on the water. This thought even frightened us to an certain extent.

So we resumed our search and moved forward. Then to relieve the stress gathered from the news of the man drowning, Ali bhaiya  decided to water fight with us. When we did not reply to him in any sort of way, he told us that this was daily news for them, as people drowning there is common, not much of a news to them.

We water fought and then reached the “Ram Jhula” , where we were to end our journey. We bid our farewell to Ali bhaiya and wished him luck and moved on. All our clothes were wet, but food was more important so we fed ourselves and then reached the ashram rooms, where we changed and had rest. After a long nap, at 8:00 pm, we gathered at the Ganges ghat To decide where to eat food. Every limb in our body was aching and no one was in a mood to walk. So we chose a small dhaba and had food there. Everyone. then, went to sleep at night.

The next morning, we had to move back to Ghaziabad and Delhi to resume our hectic life with a little time for fun. So after breakfast, all were in their rooms, packing there bags, repacking thing and making sure that nothing had been left behind.

Finally at 1:00 pm, we sat into the cars to start our journey back home. Nobody hooted or danced or sang way back home as all were tired and really exhausted. We reached home by 11:30 pm as a result of excessive traffic jams on the road.

The next day school opened, demanding question on where was I, what was I doing on Saturday etc.

The trip was worthwhile, and the best part is, that the limbs still ache to this day ;) !

Hope you enjoyed it!

Akanksha

 

My Grandfather

It was my grandfather’s birthday that I composed this poem. 

Always caring, always happy
Like the sun shining in the sky
Never sad, never lonely
Like the stars bright and high

You are never proud or vain
Always humble, always sane
You are affectionate like a mum
Always sporty, always fun

Hard working as always
But you have your spare time
When we ask, “How are you?”
You cheerfully say, “I am good and I am fine!”

Now approaching your 75th birthday
With a wrinkled eye and brow
Always as cheerful as you were
Happy birthday to you, Sir!

Science – A poem of LOGIC

What science means to kids like me, who don’t understand a thing is what has been expressed in this delightful poem.

Science, science, science
What use is it to us?
Will it help us cook?
Will it help us write good books?

They say it answers
All our unanswered questions.
What if we have
No such questions?
(It actually is a cheesy line to say, since we all can access the net now. After all, it is the 21st century!)

Physics is all about logic
And as for Chemistry
Our lives get tragic
With all those big, scientific names! Uff!

In Biology,may God help us.
For our body, why make such fuss?
These are logics, one can never be sure of.
“Why is this”, they say when I cough?

My Mother

Here is a poem I had composed for her during an activity which we were asked to do at school.

My Mother

My mother is very sweet and kind
A mother like her is tough to find
She cares for me and helps me out
When I am wrong, she does always shout
She is very smart and good
And also a wonderful cook
She has very smart looks
But, alas, she doesn’t like reading books
Like always, she is fearless
And doesn’t like too much mess
I love my mum
And when she is there, it is always fun.

Examinations

 

Oh God! It is the yearly exams again. I wonder if i will ever get enough of them. I mean every year, at around Holi, all I get is, “Will you EVER study?” Thats after you have studied like 5 hours a day!

Sometimes I feel that, after all, exams are not the end of the world. You have a life beyond that. O.K I realize that they determine our futures, but it may be possible that through examinations, parents are trying to fulfill their unfulfilled dreams? It may also be possible that they don’t understand the pressure kids feel during this time?

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No, no! Don’t get me wrong! Its not that I am blaming parents for the methods they adopt on asking their children to study. Rather I believe that they should encourage their children, BUT to a certain extent. So as to that the child does not feel under-confidant, or get on feeling that he is a loser ; even if he is talented.

The atmosphere they create also reflects how the child is feeling at that time. He will learn to share his problems with his peers rather than with the parents, though it may happen that the friends develop a certain IMAGE on how the child treats his parents rather than how the parents treat the child. This may result in differences between the thought processes of the children and the parents creating relational problems amongst them.

The house should definitely have a cool atmosphere. The parents should tell the children (Rather than the child, as I am, myself, a kid and would maybe write a bit biased article), that grades are important and what is important to them is the mental and physical well being of their child.

Also comparing will not help. Saying, “Bua ne bataya ki voh itne ghanti padhi aur maami ne bataya ki voh itne.” wont help. The child may often begin to feel jealous and this jealousy may turn into hatred to the person as well as towards the parent. This wont help him and he may go under a lot of ‘emotional atyachar’. Therefore I feel that it is important for a parent to note down on what-do-I-do-with-my-non-padhne-vaala-kid list.

Lastly, I feel that it is important for a child to understand the importance of studies in our life, but it is also important for the parents to understand that the child could be under pressure of any sort and to continue bickering him or her all the time wont help. What all children need is support from their parents and to inspire them not to discourage them.

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By Akanksha Varma Posted in Recent

Dear Friend

Dear Friend

I had always thought that you will be my true friend forever and ever and ever, but I was wrong. I have finally realized not to put all the secrets in a single basket. Or else you would have never done this to me. I don’t know what has hurt me more; getting my secrets published in a magazine or losing a FRIEND. No matter how hard I try to change the truth, it will always be the latter.

We met, talked, laughed, cried, poured our secrets out to each other, sat together and finally became best friends until the week before. Don’t know what happened or what changed you, is it as you say that you simply didn’t feel talking to me anymore or not laughing at my lame jokes or minding me hanging out with not you and other friends during the recess? Or is it that I am suddenly not stylish enough to hang out with you?

Someone has rightly said, “If you have to change yourself for a friend, that isn’t true friendship. ‘Coz if a person doesn’t like you the way you are; it’s not friendship but a DEAL between two INDIVIDUALS.

I am not gonna change myself for a person just because he/she doesn’t like me ‘coz I know that a fool (in your opinion), will definitely fall for me some day or the other.

We spend time together because we liked each other, our company and our mirchi bhaari, stories. So please never ever embarrass me again by saying, “Yaar, kal full day main aur tu saath mein. No body to disturb us! First a movie, then dinner, and lastly shopping”.

However I know that no matter how large your fault is, you’ll never apologize to me. Because you take the advantage thinking that I can’t survive without your company.

YOU are absolutely wrong this time. I am good in studies, you are better; I have A FEW CLOSE TRUE FRIENDS, you have MORE FAR FAKE FRIENDS; you do my back biting to My Few True Friends, I do your front biting in front of Your More Far Friends.

Dude, you have no idea what friends mean to us. Having a big social group is good only if you know that you have a true friend in there, always to defend you, always to help you, always to shed tears with you, always to make you laugh, always read to apologize even when you know you are the guilty side.

Unlike you, I HAVE FOUND A FRIEND LIKE THAT. So I always have someone so help me and be my guide when there seems no help at all.

So finally, I HELPED you get rid of me, your no-sock-folding, unstylish, fat, nerd, geek, freak, individual-sticking stupid EX-BEST-FRIEND.

Your Once True Friend

Akanksha

P.S. I’ll miss you but you should know that we are done! :-( I wish you had understood me so that I wouldn’t have deserted you. I AM SORRY!